Life is Sweet

Monday, August 1, 2011

Back

We are back.

Back from the trek. Let it be said, it was a wonderful experience. A friend asked, "Did you enjoy it?" NO. I did not enjoy it. It was considerably more physically, mentally, and emotionally challenging than I expected. I was constantly overheated. There was dust in my eyes, up my nose, and between my toes. I didn't comb my hair ONCE. I cried every day, not from my utter exhaustion and exertion (I came close to crying for that reason on occasion, however), but from tender spiritual moments occurring frequently throughout the day. Every day. From the realization that the pioneers sacrificed more than I could have imagined prior to taking a meager 3-day journey in their footsteps. From the first-hand observation that our youth are strong, courageous, and amazing, even in difficult and trying situations.

Clean and fresh. For a few hours.

Our trek family at Martin's Cove. Love those guys.

I will post more on the entire trek experience tomorrow.

For now, since time is limited (isn't it always?), I'll get back to "BACK."

Taylor's back from school until January.

Guess how I can tell.

We are searching high and low for a tidy place to store all his belongings, since the garage is nearly full to the brim with all the basement stuff. Once the basement is done (it's getting closer!), we will hopefully find relief to our lack-of-storage problem. And I plan to have another purging party and a yard sale or two, once I can more easily access all the ~~crap~~ items consuming precious square footage in the crawlspace. I love having Taylor home, and wish we could see more of Britt. She's coming for a wisdom-teeth-extraction visit in a couple of weeks, though.
I'll take what I can get!

And finally, Mauri's back to school.

She started back today for her final year of elementary school. Boohoo. She asked me yesterday if she can start wearing make-up next year in 6th grade, since she WILL be a middle-schooler. I told her more thought and discussion would be needed before a final decision was made. And we have a whole year to think about it. She is excited for 5th grade, and all signs of last year's anxiety attacks have disappeared. She was excited and ready to head out the door to embark on a new adventure, since this is the first year the school is off a year-round schedule (YAY!), and classmates have been shuffled every which way, instead of staying with the same group of kids, give or take a few, year after year. Since Kindergarten. And, after three years of teachers of the male gender, she finally has a female teacher. AND, as soon as her dad secures a job, she gets a dog.
Yep, life is good for Mar.

Blog break's over, I need to get back to the work of getting back.

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Update Quickie

I am not good at quick posts. I have a million things still to do before I report at the Stake Center this evening to help check in and load supplies of Trekkers. At which time I must also have my supplies packed up and ready to load as well. AND the supplies of my two lovely daughters that will be accompanying Bill and me on this exciting adventure. But I couldn't resist an update quickie, lest I forget the life that has gone on this week between my frantic scurrying about. (FYI - I seem to be the only frantic scurry-er in my household.)

Last Saturday Shilo swam in her very first All-Star swim meet. She went into it optimistic, but after placing 5th in the 200 Free - an event she has only competed in once this season, and definitely not her strongest - and 4th in the 100 Fly - which she went into seeded 2nd - things were not feeling so great.

She was grumpy, down-on-herself, and nervous about her final event, the 100 Back.

She won!

That made her feel much better. Nice job, Shi.

That evening, Taylor was making his way home from BYU-I. After a lengthy 10-hour drive, he had made it to Denver - the far northwest region (we are far southeast) - and was on his way to drop off his good friend Lynnea, when the explosion happened. His tire blew. Which is amazingly ironic, since just the week earlier, Britta had a blow-out on I-15.

What's up with that?

The good thing was that he wasn't as far away as Britt had been, and we could actually help. (Sorry, Britt, that we couldn't be there to bail you out of the tire-blowing-on-a-busy-freeway-on-your-way-to-your-old-roommate's-bridal-shower mess. Sorry that you missed the shower. THANK YOU, Uncle Brian, for stepping in to save the day. We owe you.)

It's been great to have Taylor home again. Although some serious mommy makeover business will be happening. Some already has. I will post pictures later, when I'm not in such a hurry.

The basement is coming along. The grout color has finally, finally been selected (after four tries), and has been applied. The cabinets are going in today. The countertops have been ordered. I am trying to have confidence in my ability to choose wisely, but my fingers will be crossed until basement completion, after which time I will exclaim that it is "fantastic!" regardless of what I really think. Honestly, though, I think it's going to be awesome.

During our brief visit to Utah, my sister shared with me how she had broken her toe on her last visit to Utah the month prior. She described pushing through the pain to take her daughter to Lagoon the very next day (as promised), and then soon after had to attend girls camp and go on a gazillion hikes. All with her toe taped, aching, bruised, and broken. I felt for her. Really. But now I can relate even more, as yesterday, in all my scurrying, I whacked my toe good and hard into the kitchen trash can. Initially I thought it would just be a little stub, easily soothed, and forgotten in no time. Wrong-O. My toe hasn't stopped throbbing since. It is swollen and purple, with a couple blue streaks down one side. I couldn't have the bedcovers on it last night. I couldn't put on shoes today.

The Trek is tomorrow.

My children are unsympathetic. "Now you'll relate to the pioneers better," they say.

(We went to see 17 Miracles yesterday in anticipation of our trekking experience.)

"Yeah, they had it way worse than you."

I just hope I can put my shoe on. And walk. And push through the pain. And be a good Ma. And not complain.

I'm going to keep telling myself, "BUT, I'm getting better!" Thanks, grandma.

Sunday, July 24, 2011

Worthy of Emulation

Although quick, our trip to Utah for my grandmother's funeral was well worth the effort. I love seeing these guys. (And no, that is NOT The Bieber.)

My brothers and sisters were all able to attend, so once again we were together. Twice in a month. Nice.

The funeral service was lovely. In conversations surrounding it, and experiences shared throughout, I learned even more about my grandma.

Shilo's favorite facts:

She had 14 children, 96 grandchildren, 281 great-grandchildren, and 40 great-great-grandchildren at the time of her earthly departure. Can you imagine keeping track of that family tree?

She had many virtues worthy of emulation. I thought I would share a few I hope to improve on and more fully emulate. It HAS to be in my DNA, right?

Prepared and Prompt

My grandma was always ready. If you had an appointment, or if she needed a ride, she would be ready at the precise time arranged. Waiting. Goodness knows, I could be better at that. Promptness shows consideration for the time and efforts of others, and that you are dependable and consistent. But to be prompt, you must be prepared. That is where I fall a bit short. Somewhere in all the pre-work that ensures you are where you need to be when you need to be there, I ~~usually~~ ~~often~~ occasionally lose focus.

Optimistic and Kind

My grandma always looked at the positive side of things. Even if she was sick or not feeling well, she would say, "But I'm getting better!" She seldom, if ever, complained. My dad told me that he had never heard her say a negative thing about others. I WISH those who know me well could say that. I am determined to improve.

She served diligently, mothered patiently, and lived gracefully.

Thank you, Grandma, for your amazing example. We will miss you!

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Swim Success and Shade Hogs

Last Saturday was the Championship meet.

The top 16 swimmers from Prelims face off.

Mar's medley AND free relay teams placed 4th. Way to go, girls!

Shi's medley AND free relay teams placed 1st.

Shilo took first place in all her individual events. In fact, in her category (Girls 13-14), a Canterberry Croc placed first in every event. Too bad the team has no boys in that age group.

Mar improved her backstroke time by 5 seconds, taking 12th place overall, and took nearly a second off of her IM time, placing 13th. Mar improved a TON this year!

Bill and I were shade hogs (not to be confused with Old Dogs, or Wild Hogs). At multi-team meets such as this, there is always a designated team area. I took one look at the Crocs area, with two pop-up shade covers already packed with chairs, towels, coolers, and numerous sundry items, and realized that the only space available would be sitting in the direct rays of the blazing sun. No. Can. Do. So we scoped out an area that would provide the most shade for the longest period of time, albeit far from the "team seating." The girls still hung out with the team most of the time, but they were in and out of a nice refreshing pool. We did not have that option. So we were in the rocks, right next to some shrubs, but we were protected. A good thing, since by the time the meet was over, I had sweat running places I shant mention, even with the shade.

Thank you, sheltering tree.

Bill timed during the final third of the meet, so he was placed perfectly to give Mar some pre-event encouragement.

The summer swim season is done. Except for the All Star meet Shi will swim on Saturday. We've never attended one before, so I can only hope it will be fast. I'm sure we'll be tired after our quick trip to Utah and Wyoming for my Grandma's funeral services. The Pioneer Trek is next week, then school starts for Mar the following Monday.

Summer has felt like a marathon. Not that I know, since I have never marathoned, nor do I ever intend to marathon, but I can surmise. Can I get one of those 26.2 stickers??

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Can I Have a Do-Over?

Seriously, yesterday was THAT bad.

It really started back on Friday. Remember how thrilled I was at my new tile-cutting skill? Bill and I were eagerly anticipating the end result of our hours of labor. The floor was looking great, and all we had to do was grout. How hard could that be? ~~Date~~ Friday night was spent intently working away on our common goal to git 'er done. Our ever-so-helpful neighbor, Blair, came over to assist once again. I was in charge of the buckets and wringing out the sponges, Bill was grouting, and Blair was sponging up afterwards. It was such a great system. We followed the instructions on the back of the bag of grout mix precisely. (I know, I know... what were we thinking... tiling from the instructions on the back of the bag?) This is where we got a little hung up:

Lightly clean off grout with damp sponge. CAUTION: DO NOT OVER WATER.

Wait 2 hours.

Remove haze with cheesecloth or sponge.

Once we were finished up to the "wait 2 hours" step, it was late, and the swim meet of the following morning would be upon us before we knew it (more on that another day... soon). So we selected to postpone the "remove haze" step until after the meet. 2 hours -- 16 hours -- what's the difference.

Serious mistake. Our porous tile had soaked up the grout haze like a man dying of thirst in a desert oasis. The haze was NOT coming off. And the grout, a pleasing tan color when wet, had turned a brilliant shade of white. (Which is probably why it was called Bone. I had made my selection from a tiny color sample on the bag, which appeared tan, apparently oblivious to reasoning that Bone would quite obviously be a shade of white.)

I felt positively sick about it all.

(Ugly Bone grout. My bad.)

Bill and the girls spent the entirety of Saturday evening scrubbing the haze, only to realize that there were still hours of hard labor ahead. I hated the grout color. We discussed our options (one of which was to rip it all out and replace it with the wood we had initially wanted, before making the decision to tile to conserve financial resources) and researched information online.

So Bill spent yesterday removing grout. 12+ hours. What a mess.

(I spent a good 2 hours running around finding replacement blades for Bill's nifty tool.)

(That dust is a bugger to clean up.)

(Replacing a tile that got chipped in the process. Because we don't have anything better to do than a do-over.)

Needless to say, I was at the end of my rope by the end of the day.

And I'll admit it, I fell apart. Words came out of my mouth that I am ashamed of today, and apologies have now been extended to my family. They, kindly and lovingly, have forgiven me, and allowed me a do-over. I hope I can handle things with more grace today.

Bill has been a rock. The best husband ever. He has not said one negative word to me about my poor grout color choice, and the resulting work. He has labored into the wee hours of the morning on not a few occasions. He is making up for my measly 20% offering, which has been all I can muster the past few days.
I am such a lucky girl.

We STILL have the haze issue, for which we may be using these.

Then, let it be known, I am DONE. We are hiring out the bathroom tile, and Bill can wisely spend his time on a less back-breaking paying job.

Monday, July 18, 2011

Softly and Tenderly

An email I received this morning:

Dear Children,

Grandma Call passed away around 11 pm this evening, Sunday July 17th. Mom received a telephone call about 2 hours ago informing her of her mother's condition and she immediately left for Logan and was able to get there about 10 minutes before she passed away. Both of us were there this weekend, coming home just this morning... when we left we both commented that things looked pretty serious today. Interestingly, July 17th is the same day my mother, Grandma Goldsberry, passed away 19 years ago. It's been a reflective and sad day today!

We love you all!

Dad

Ninety four (almost 95) years of enduring to the end.

That is impressive.

Beloved wife...

(1968)

Mother...

Grandmother...

(Grandpa and Grandma with Jill and Rob, 1966)

(Grandma with Rob and Jill, 1970. I'm wondering where I was too... That red VW was our family car.)

(Both sets of Grandparents... BONUS! I'm in the hip retro striped dress, 1971)

Great-Grandmother...

(Grandma and my nephew Josh, 1989)

(Grandma with me, Bill, Lexee, Taylor and Britta, 1995)

(Grandma with Shilo, 1997)

(Grandma with Mauri, 2010)

And Great-Great Grandmother. (Just not for our family yet.)

She has been an amazing example of faith, love, patience, and endurance. We will miss her, and are so grateful for the time we've been privileged to spend with her. (Last summer's reunion here.)

A few years back our ward choir sang a number called Softly and Tenderly. A slow, beautiful arrangement by David R. Naylor of an old American folk hymn. I love the message.

Softly and tenderly Jesus is calling,

Calling for you and for me;

See on the portals He's waiting and watching,

Watching for you and for me.

Come home, come home;

Ye who are weary, come home!

Earnestly, tenderly, Jesus is calling,

Calling, "Dear children, come home."

Why should we tarry when Jesus is pleading?

Pleading for you and for me.

Why should we linger and heed not His mercies?

Mercies for you and for me.

Oh, for the wonderful love He has promised!

Promised for you and for me!

Though we have sinned, He has mercy and pardon,

Pardon for you and for me.

Come home, come home;

Ye who are weary, come home!

Earnestly, tenderly, Jesus is calling,

Calling, "Dear children, come home."

I am grateful for my knowledge of the true Gospel of Jesus Christ, and for the great heritage I have been blessed with. A heritage of sacrifice, diligence, determination, and faith.

Families are forever.

Friday, July 15, 2011

All in a Day's Work

Basement progress report:

Yesterday I completed the tile cutting for the "kitchen" area while Bill was "working." No, he doesn't really have a "job," but he has been working on a "proof of concept" proposal, for which he will be paid for his time. So it's "work," but not necessarily a "job," and may or may not be a permanent resolution to our current "employment situation." When he got home from "work," he went to work on mortaring the rest of the "kitchen" floor (made easier by his trusty and loyal tile cutter).

While Bill was finishing up in the "kitchen," I laboriously carried the six (6) boxes of purchased bathroom floor tile from the garage to the basement, one excruciatingly heavy box at a time. I carefully opened the first box of tile, and laid a few pieces out to see if I had chosen wisely. Yuck. It didn't work with Country Beige at all (which looks more like Sunny Lemon with the florescent lighting in the laundry area of the bathroom). Bill suggested re-painting the bathroom, to match the tile. No thank you. I will live with Country Beige and love it, even if it kills me. We decided to make our millionth run to the local home improvement store to return the six (6) boxes of tile (I only took one back UP the stairs -- Bill strong-armed the rest), and make another selection. We returned with tile samples, and not a few, one of which was not sold "by the piece," so we had to purchase the entire box. 20"x 20" porcelain. 7 pieces. SUPER HEAVY. Once Bill had lugged the samples down the stairs, I laid them out and quickly started eliminating (including the back-breaking style) until a final decision was made. Today, after "work," Bill will swing by the store to return the samples, and purchase the selected tile. Then the tile cutting, mortaring and setting will begin again in haste, in order to accommodate the Monday arrival of the cabinets.

After expending all of our energy on "work," work, and decision-making, last night we decided to watch Part 1 of Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, just in case we had a spare moment to catch the finale in the next couple of weeks (which seems highly unlikely with the schedule we've been keeping lately). Lexee wasn't home, since she had purchased her opening day midnight movie tickets weeks ago, and had to be at the theater early. Mar fell asleep in the first 10 minutes. Shi fell asleep after the first hour. I nodded on and off throughout, with an occasional twinge of back pain, an obvious result of the day's labor. It didn't really matter, since I have poor movie memory-retention ability, and can recall very little about ANY of the Harry Potter flicks. I would still go see the new movie, if only for welcomed relief from all the "work" going on around here.

It looks like date night will be spent with the wet saw. This is getting serious.