On Dec. 27th we made the long drive to Utah (with Britt, Austin and Scarlett PLUS Lo and her school stuff). The plan was to stay until the 30th, as Bill had agreed to preside at the marriage of a couple in our ward on the 31st. Dayna had planned a surprise birthday party for Jeff's 40th, and we were going to be able to attend (yay!).
We {carefully and gently} passed around their new baby Easton. It was so fun to meet him for the first time.
Scarlett found the toy room, so she was a happy camper... for the most part... unless another child snagged a toy she was playing with. There would be an occasional meltdown heard coming from behind the stairs haha.
Just look at all the love Easton got from his cousins.
We grabbed this picture of us all together the night before Bill and Mar were leaving. I had decided to stay in Utah because I knew that Tay and Lynnea's baby would arrive the moment I left.
On New Years Eve, since Britt, Austin, and Scarlett were spending it with Austin's family, and Jason and Lex were spending it with Jason's family, and Shilo had a DATE, I invited Tay and Nae over for dinner and a game or two (we played my new current fave, Ticket To Ride)... a nice quiet start to 2017.
Hello, 2017.
Later that day we attended Easton's baby blessing.
A lot of the next week was a blur. I was just waiting. Patiently waiting. And enjoying spending a little extra time with Wonderful Sweet Scarlett.
Britt, Scarlett, and I also got Shilo settled into her new digs in Provo.
That Saturday Shi, Lex and I went to the Salt Lake Temple for a session. They loved it (a first for both of them) and I loved being there with them.
I traveled to Bountiful to stay with my parents for a night, then had a flight home Sunday evening. Still waiting for my new little granddaughter to arrive. I was hoping that she would come on Mauri's birthday and BEFORE my trip home. Nope. Lynnea had been having contractions and had gone to the hospital to be checked, but they sent her home. Auuuuggghh! I stressed over what to do.
Should I stay or should I go now?
At the very last moment (and after consulting with Billy-my-hero, who was in the middle of a Stake youth fireside with Mar), the decision was made to stay.
Monday morning I headed to Provo to chill with Lynnea while Tay started his first day of the new semester. When I got to their apartment, they were contemplating going back to the hospital because Nae had had a long night of painful contractions. After hearing the details, I thought going would be a very smart choice {happy dance that THIS might be the day}.
Once she was checked and the doctor was called, we were told she got to stay.
{Happy happy dance}
Lynnea labored throughout the day, initially progressing pretty quickly, but then things slowed a bit.
Shilo came after school to hang out with us, followed by Britt and Austin, Lex and Jason a little later that evening. Finally it was time to push, so we all headed to the waiting room.
To wait.
The waiting made me a little nervous. I knew it could take a while for a first baby (I pushed for over an hour with Tay), but this was REALLY taking a long time. Every time the double doors would open, I would expect to see Tay with a big smile on his face telling us "she's here!"
Finally the doctor came out and asked me to come into the room with Taylor and Lynnea. The rest of the family followed. It was there that we found out that sweet 8-pound-3-ounce Evelynn was here, but she had some complications immediately following her birth. She was in the NICU. It was something to do with her lungs, but they were still assessing. We would not see her.
Taylor and Lynnea would get to see her briefly.
They had done an x-ray, and her lungs looked cloudy, small, and were not inflating as they should. She would be on a respirator. Tay and Nae were told not to expect her home for 7 to 14 days.
This was not the excited, fun greeting I had hoped for, but I am so so grateful for the medical advances we have today. Evelynn would not be here without the quick reaction of the medical staff, and the expertise of educated doctors and nurses. I am especially thankful for them! It's been a lengthy stay for my new precious granddaughter {17 days today}, but her parents have had the best attitude.
I have learned from them... about patience, about faith, and about love.
Next up: Meet Evelynn














