Sunday, July 24, 2011

Worthy of Emulation

Although quick, our trip to Utah for my grandmother's funeral was well worth the effort.  I love seeing these guys.  (And no, that is NOT The Bieber.)

My brothers and sisters were all able to attend, so once again we were together.  Twice in a month.  Nice.
The funeral service was lovely.  In conversations surrounding it, and experiences shared throughout, I learned even more about my grandma.

Shilo's favorite facts:
She had 14 children, 96 grandchildren, 281 great-grandchildren, and 40 great-great-grandchildren at the time of her earthly departure.  Can you imagine keeping track of that family tree?

She had many virtues worthy of emulation.  I thought I would share a few I hope to improve on and more fully emulate.  It HAS to be in my DNA, right?

Prepared and Prompt
My grandma was always ready.  If you had an appointment, or if she needed a ride, she would be ready at the precise time arranged.  Waiting.  Goodness knows, I could be better at that.  Promptness shows consideration for the time and efforts of others, and that you are dependable and consistent.  But to be prompt, you must be prepared.  That is where I fall a bit short.  Somewhere in all the pre-work that ensures you are where you need to be when you need to be there, I usually often occasionally lose focus.

Optimistic and Kind
My grandma always looked at the positive side of things.  Even if she was sick or not feeling well, she would say, "But I'm getting better!"  She seldom, if ever, complained.  My dad told me that he had never heard her say a negative thing about others.  I WISH those who know me well could say that.  I am determined to improve.

She served diligently, mothered patiently, and lived gracefully.

Thank you, Grandma, for your amazing example.  We will miss you!

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