Tuesday, February 13, 2018

Sing, Swim, Sadies, Sayonara.

Mar has been keeping herself busy the past month, so I thought I would do a quick update lest I forget what she's been up to.

On January 27, one of the choirs Mauri participates in {Mirinesse} performed at the CMEA (Colorado Music Educators Association) Conference at the Broadmoor in Colorado Springs. I'm new here (haha), but I've been told that this is a great honor, as only 8 (I think) choirs are invited to perform each year, and you can only be invited every three years. This particular year, two of CV's choirs were selected: Mirinesse (the lowest level audition women's choir at the school, made up primarily of sophomores and juniors), and Voices of the Pride (a mixed choir, and highest level of audition choir at CV).

Bill and I could only stay for Mirinesse's performance, but they were seriously
A.MAZ.ING.

(These were my sneaky pictures because I don't think we were supposed to take any haha. Bill and I had actually acquired the front row seats by stratagem, only to have CV's other choir director ask us to move so he, his daughter, and the principal could sit there. Dang. We could have had the front seats on the other side of the aisle and NOT have been asked to move. With all our strategizing, we did not see that coming.)

Mirinesse did sign language to their final song (above pic).

I loved the variety of songs they performed.

Here's the whole program:

Hakuna Mungu Kama Wewe 
(East African Kenya Worship Song - Celebration of Life)

And Nature Smiled

Ouvres tes yeux bleus 

Libertango

The Blessing

Ain't No Grave Can Hold My Body Down

There was (of course) absolutely NO RECORDING of the performance, so Bill and I purchased a DVD ($$$), and I am excited to watch it again once we get it.

We also had the opportunity to purchase pictures... but I think the ones Bill and I snapped are perfectly sufficient (I was so glad we were "allowed" to take our own haha).


This has been my favorite choir this year (no bias!... I think) and I am so glad Mauri had the opportunity to participate in the whole CMEA experience. On our drive home, Bill and I discussed how we've observed, through our many many years of supporting children in their varied activities in high school, what a difference a director... a teacher... a coach makes. The success of the whole seems to be in direct relation to the expectations, efforts, and quality of the leader. Just saying.


On February 2nd, Mar had her final swim meet, not only of the season, but most likely of her life.
She got to swim in the A League meet, and swam the 100Free and in three relays.
She did awesome.

I'm proud of her sticking with it, and we have hopes of her possibly lettering, although I've been informed that such things are not necessarily as prominent in today's BYU application (there's been some changes, I hear, since our last application process 4 - or was it 5? - years ago). Whatever the end result, it was a good learning experience, and growth is necessary for progression, right? I can say that I won't miss sitting endless hours on hard cement benches (or tiny metal bleachers) in a crowded, steamy room smelling of chlorine. On a quick side note, her swim coach ("Profe") was named the 5A Coach of the Year, and her County Co-op team placed 10th overall at state. Impressive!


Sadies was coming up, so Mar set to work on asking her favorite boy to the dance.
Themed around The Office (which, sadly... or not, I know little about. I've watched a few episodes, I may have laughed a couple of times, but I've just never been able to get into it).

Mar tried to explain it to me... it just went over my head haha.
I was impressed with her Cricut-cutting hot-glue-gunning skills, though.


Those letters are on a stapler, btw. It's hard to see through all that green.

The next day she had arranged with Gavin's mom to stop by while he was out running an errand, and she presented herself (as Dwight), the poster, and the jello to him upon his return.


After a lot of confusing coordination going on about the actual plans for the dance, it was finally decided that we would host dinner at our house.

Fast forward to February 3rd and the dance.




(Nicki, Mar, Ashley)

This time Bill and I did not plan to go with the group as they took pictures.
Because we live in Castle Rock, now, and apparently that isn't what Castle Rock parents do.







Once they were finished with dinner they headed to the dance, and Bill and I cleaned up.

After the dance, they went ice-blocking, then came back to our house to have hot chocolate and "start" a movie. By this time it was past midnight, and there were only three of the initial group of six left standing. Around 1:30, after texting Mar a few times with no result, I sent Bill down to send everyone home. We had Stake Conference the following day, and had to be up much earlier for church than our usual 1pm time.
May I interject, parenting is EXHAUSTING.

Overall, I think it was a success.
But that's just coming from the person that cooked, cleaned up, set up, cleaned up {again}, and stayed up.


The weeks following Sadies have been a bit of a roller coaster.
After several discussions, it is the consensus at our house to say SAYONARA to boyfriending.

We do, however, still "friend." Haha.

Separating the two has been tricky, but, according to one of my favorite prophets {Gordon B. Hinckley}, "It isn't as bad as you sometimes think it is... It will all work out. Put your trust in God and move forward with faith and confidence in the future."

Mar had a Walmart Scavenger Hunt double date on Saturday, and in her efforts to wrangle up a date for her friend that night, got herself another date for Valentines Day.
At least she's not lonely.

Friday, January 26, 2018

Birthday x 5.

I think my zest for blogging is waning.
Not that I no longer find it enjoyable (I do!), it's just that I'm pretty dang busy for a woman of my age.
Old. And getting older.
I thought that at this stage in life, things would be smooth and easy. I'm realizing the error of my beliefs as things continue to stay... busy. And anything BUT smooth and easy.

Time is still passing "as it were unto us a dream."
The days are flying. Everyone is getting older. Literally, haha.

Here's a super quick catch-up of the 5 (FIVE!) Birthdays we celebrated this month.

Although Mauri's birthday is technically first, we celebrated Evie's a couple days early so her Grandma and Grandpa Fisher could come party with us.

Sunday, January 7th
Tay and Nae snapped these adorable photos before we headed out for church:




That evening we had a yummy dinner, Evie opened presents, and we sang and had cake.






Evie was not shy about digging into her cake. It was fun to see her enjoy it so much! I think most of my children were timid first-time cakers, so it took some coaxing to get them to dig in. It must have something to do with the fear of God I apparently instilled in them at a very VERY young age over making a mess haha.




It was a smashing {and a wee bit messy} celebration.

(With Grandma and Grandpa Fisher after her bath)


Monday, January 8th.
Weeks earlier, we tossed around ideas for Mar's birthday and finally decided to have a low-key celebration by going out to dinner. Let it be known I was WILLING to have a party, but I guess it just didn't work with Mar's schedule and friend group(s).

Because we only have 1 key to her car, and the door code was unknown to us at the time (which has since been remedied thanks to Billy-my-hero), I couldn't decorate the inside of her car like I wanted. I had also thought about decorating her locker at school, but I don't know if she even has one.

 I was recently mentioning that I wished CV did locker decorations like our past two high schools rather than other types of recognition that seem foreign and less fun to me (like little goodie bags for each choir concert full of knick knacks, trinkets, and candy, most of which usually goes into the trash after it sits around Mar's room for a few days; and a request to decorate the choir rooms as a surprise for the choirs performing at CMEA... which seems like a whole lot o' effort for something that they enjoy only temporarily -- a day? I don't even know -- and doesn't last...). Mauri informed me that it would be hard at CV because a lot of kids don't even have and/or use lockers, and that the school doesn't really keep track of who has them and who doesn't. It sounds like they are somewhat optional. Such a bummer, since locker tags are a much better way to give kids recognition for their activities than goodie bags... in my ohh-so-humble locker-tag-loving opinion {wink}.

Back to Mar's car.
I decided to decorate it up a bit while she was at swim practice.




Sadly, she said NO ONE honked at her on her way home... but it WAS dark. She liked the glow bracelets on the handles, though. I'll say it was a semi-successful old-mom attempt at doing something kind of... fun.

We ate at Outback Steakhouse, which was Mar's choice for dinner. We had never been (I know... weird), and when Mar and I were at Sam's Club looking at the gift card options they had available, she wanted give it a try.





Afterwards we came back home to have cake (Mar's request was cheesecake) and open presents.






I can't believe my baby is 17. 
The more she doesn't really seem to need {or want} my attention/opinion/overbearing-mama-bearness, the more I'm feeling the symptoms of mothering withdrawals. Yes, I, who has never cried over the first day of kindergarten (ever), or the last day of elementary school... or middle school (good riddance, I say), or at high school graduation, or college drop-off, (I have to admit I've shead a tear or two over departing and returning missionaries... and perhaps at a few weddings) am struggling with my feelings about not being the mother of a minor child. I only have a year left, but I am sensing the natural move towards independence that Mar has begun to make, AND I DON'T LIKE IT.
Seriously, struggling here.






Happy Birthday, baby!



Tuesday, January 9th
Evie's actual birthday.
I snapped a couple of pics to commemorate the day.



One year ago...

...to today, this girl has done a lot o' growing. I love her and have enjoyed having her nice and close the past few months!

That evening, Bill and Mar went downtown to see The King and I (part of her birthday gift).


They had a great time, so hopefully Mar will remember it as a good birthday.


Tuesday, January 16th was Jason's birthday.
Instagram story/photo creds Lex.

We didn't do much to help him celebrate... a call, a rousing verse of happy birthday, and a venmo gift... but we are super grateful for him, too!


Saturday, January 20th
We were, again, planning to celebrate on Sunday, but it was such a lovely January day (with a storm rolling in that evening), we decided to take a walk, and, again, I snapped a few pics just to commerate the ACTUAL birthdays of Lynnea and Billy-my-hero.



Happy Birthday to my little old man!


Sunday, January 21st
As a lucky birthday surprise, we had a SNOW DAY from church.
It was nice to spend the day together, nice and cozy at home. (Although Bill had been at the church at 6:30am to shovel snow, and Mar attended a missionary prep class at 7am, both BEFORE the Stake Presidency decided to call it a snow day.) 
We had a yummy dinner, then sang and had cake and ice cream.


Note Bill's single blue candle in the {sort of} middle of his cake. I couldn't believe I was short ONE MEASLY WHITE CANDLE. I would have taken one of ANY size... I just wanted white. Nope, not happening. Oh well.






That was a whole lot o' candles.
81 to be exact. In one blow. Okay, it was really two blows haha.
(FYI, a total of 127 candles this month!)

German chocolate cake for Bill (which was single layer due to a really REALLY deflated second layer - dumb high altitude baking - that was sampled, then tossed...), and carrot cake for Nae. Yum.

Whew. That was a busy January.
I love these people.
Happy Birthday all y'all.