Friday, April 20, 2012

Pup Update

A couple pictures of the pups:






Jack and Ava are the best.

Post post.  To make you smile even more, a little funny I found on Pinterest 
(for all you buffet lovers... you know who you are):

Sunday, April 15, 2012

Before Prom

I just thought I would quickly post a few pics from the Before Prom gathering.

 Lexee took her shoes off (can you spot one by the stair?) and enjoyed the fact that her friends Hailey and Katie were taller than she was.

A dad/daughter shot.


Putting on the boutonniere...

...and the corsage.
It was breezy and cold outside.  Unfortunate, since the weather had been lovely for most of the day.  But at least it didn't rain or snow.  Until the party bus rolled away.

A group shot:

A couple of couple shots:
We had fun with taking the shot in front of a picture of Christ... a gentle reminder to start the evening (wink)


And a few parting shots:

Our cute neighbor Chase, along with Mauri and his sister Lauren, had just been dropped off at home as the Prom party bus was leaving.  They had returned from spending two hours at a local gymnastics school celebrating and having fun at a birthday party.  He was sad... sad to the point of shedding tears... he wanted to go the "After Party" -- something about a BBQ following the birthday party.

Oh my.  Please don't tell me that might become the new standard.  A party, then an After Party.  

Prom is bad enough with

Before Prom
Prom
After Prom
and after After Prom.

Lex came home at 5:30 am.

The quick lowdown:

The party bus was fun.

Dinner (@ Hard Rock Cafe) was fun.

The Prom was smaller than anticipated (I'm not sure if she was talking venue size or numbers), but fun.

After Prom (@ the Family Fun Center) was not that fun.


After After Prom (breakfast at the Waffle House, then Mario Kart at a friend's house) was fun.

Sounds like fun was in the majority.  Nice.

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Prom Dress Miracle

I couldn't wait to share a real life miracle that happened today.

Remember Lexee's pink and silver lace Prom dress (refresher here)?  We took it back (Lex decided that it WAS a tad short - for a long dress).  After several more stores and numerous additional try-ons, Lex selected another dress.  This time in a champagne/blush color, with snazzy sequins on top.  Strapless, of course.  (Nearly all formal dresses with sleeves/straps around these parts are granny dresses, and boy, has Lex let me know, since I encouraged her on not-a-few occasions to "just give it a try."  That cap-sleeved satin fuchsia dress was always in the back of my mind.  As a last resort, of course.)

Since Lex's indecision put us behind a bit, and since the Prom dress took nearly her entire budget (all but $5), and she would be footing the alteration bill herself, I offered to put the straps/sleeves on for her.  
No charge.

We shopped JoAnns for fabric.  I had been concerned all along that it might be tricky to find something that would "go" with the champagne/blush color, let alone semi-match it.  We didn't have great success, but found a crushed tulle in a taupe-ish color that could possibly work (I was still worried).  I sat on it a couple of days.

Today, I determined, I simply MUST at least start the process of alterations.  I carefully scrutinized several of my neighbor's professionally altered dresses.  I decided to run to my two local stores that carry fabric, Hobby Lobby and Walmart, just to say I had covered every base.  I purchased $6 worth of half-yard fabric pieces at Hobby Lobby, thinking they might give me options.  Then I headed to Walmart.

The fabric section was a disaster.  Boxes everywhere, blocking aisles, and making it difficult to navigate.  On the cutting table there was a sign:  "For assistance, please go to the Photo Center or Electronics."  I scanned the bolts of fabric down every aisle.  I spotted some dusty rose colored tulle, and wondered if it would be worth adding to my Options collection.  Then I walked to an aisle in the back.  One that I have probably never looked at before.  That is when the miracle happened.

A bolt of champagne-ish/blush-ish sheer fabric.
I did not have the dress with me to compare, and I told myself it was most likely not the match I thought it was, but at $2.50/yd, I certainly had nothing to lose.  I walked to the Photo Center for assistance, and purchased 2 yards (way more than I needed, but I wanted to have some back-up IF it was the match I was hoping for).  When I arrived at my car, I quickly checked it against the Prom dress laying across the back seat.

I swear I could hear angels singing.

Since then, I have been tirelessly working on the dress.  I actually made two sets of "straps" (I'm not sure what to call them, since they really aren't "sleeves"), the second set much wider, since I'm all for more coverage.  They were a no-go for Lex, and when it came down to it, once the wider straps were gathered, they didn't cover much more than the thinner straps.  I conceded to Lex, and began work on sewing the straps on the dress.

It has been much more difficult and time-consuming than I had anticipated, but well worth the cost effectiveness.  What do you think?



Miracles happen.

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Mediocre


My performance rating lately.

I'm not being dramatic, just truthful.

Yesterday I designed, printed, cut and laminated about 100 of the tackiest locker tags I have ever produced.  I was in a git 'er done state of mind, and aggressively pursued checking the task off my list.  (Besides, there are 100 athletes on the track team, all of whom have a parent of some kind or other, almost none of which are clamoring to assist with the locker-tag-making duties, requiring me to fill in the weeks with blanks on the schedule.)  After cutting them and laminating half, I brainstormed a much wittier phrase for them, but in the interest of saving time and ink, elected not to re-do.  Most kids just throw them in the garbage, anyway.  At least that's what I'm telling myself.  Surely there have been much uglier, dumber, and tackier locker tags hanging around the school (in super quantities like 100+), right?  I told Lex that nobody need know I made them.  She assured me that she wouldn't tell.

Our Easter celebration was another mediocre performance.

I purchased the ham Saturday evening (grateful that I could find a decent one that wasn't frozen solid, which I only mention because the first group of hams I came to at the grocery store were, causing a few brief moments of panic).  I forgot asparagus, but had some carrots at home, and figured they would work.  Add a little salad and some cheesy potatoes, and it's a holiday egg-stravaganza.  Menu: done.

Then I went home and we colored eggs.  Late in the evening.  Bill and I were exhausted, after spending the day at a track meet, and working concessions for half of it.  (Bill had been the grill man, and smelled of grilled hamburgers, dogs, and smoke...yum.  No, seriously.  Yum.)  I had not purchased an egg-dying kit, but figured I could find a way to use what we had at home and make it work.  It was a success.  Perhaps not a smashing success, but we are fine with mediocre.  Eggs: dyed.





Bill remembered that we had neglected to do our semi-annual measuring tradition over conference weekend, so we nabbed our trusty post (the framer that worked on our basement kindly cut it out for us), and did a quick, mediocre version of the measure.




Results: Lex has not grown for several years, Shilo grew a quarter inch in the past 6 months, and Mar was the winner with a spurt of 3/4".

Melancholy (Megamind pronunciation, please) Bill started talking about how we were going to measure our grandchildren on that very same post.  I knew it was time for bed.

On Sunday morning the girls hunted Easter baskets (the ones that were quickly hidden moments earlier by a mediocre tired bunny).  Bill had been up early, and of course, was all ready for church while the rest of us looked... let's just say, "not our best."  He had a great time capturing us all on video for posterity.


Per Mar's request, we had three hunts going on.  One for numerous plastic eggs all over the house, one for baskets from "the" bunny (who was on a budget this year, but took requests for specific needs/wants so as to not waste it on unnecessary fluff), and one for baskets from Grandma Syddall's Utah bunny, fluff included.  Perfect.





It was handy having the basement for new hiding places.  After 10 years of basket hunting in the same few rooms, it was nice to challenge the girls a bit.  Hints were requested and given, however, in the spirit of "We need to move this thing along, since Dad has to leave, church starts in a couple hours, and Mom needs to whip something together for Singing Time."

Yes, Singing Time was a bit mediocre, too.

(Note:  I don't want to negate the true meaning of Easter, as I realize that this post has been primarily about events, and not so much about the purpose of the holiday.  Luckily, I had not-a-few moments to ponder and reflect on the Savior, his Atonement, and the Resurrection.  Sacrament Meeting was lovely.  I shed a tear as a young man gave a talk in Primary.  Singing Time may not have as perfectly planned as I would have liked, but we were able to sing a beautiful song called Gethsemane.  Despite the fact that our new pianist did not get the music in time to practice, I know the children could feel the spirit as we sang.)

After church I flew home to pop the ham in the oven (I wanted to have it done before church, but couldn't quite manage it with all the mediocre Singing Time preparations going on), and throw dinner together before our guests, the Yoshikawas came over.  The girls all pitched in (one of the best parts of the day - I love having those girls in the kitchen with me), and made the rolls (which, btw, were excellent).


We sent the kids on an Easter Walk just before dinner, and they shared what they found after we were finished eating.  Mar had been given a cute bag with the following list of items to collect:

 Branch - The week before His crucifixion, as Christ entered the city, the people waved branches from palm trees.

Piece of Wood - For it was out of wood His cross was made.

Something Prickly - His crown was made of thorns.

Something No Longer Alive - For truly the Savior died.

Three Things in Dark Color - There were three days of darkness.  Light could not be found following His death.

Stone - The angel moved a large stone at the opening of His tomb.

Something Living - To remind us that Jesus Christ died, was resurrected, and He surely lives today!

(I forgot to snap a pic before we ate... so you get the after-dinner-mint-to-take-it-when-the-table-looked-pretty version.)

Despite the simpleness of dinner, it was delicious.  We have enjoyed the leftovers for the two days following.  I have felt like a more-than-mediocre mom as I place a lovely plate of nuked ham and potatoes, with a side of salad, AND A ROLL in front of my hungry family each evening.  I think that perhaps they have reached the limit, however, on how many nights in a row they will eat the same meal.  In my {mediocre} frame of mind, I might try to stretch it
one more day.

I must say, mediocre is better than flailing, and a hundred times better than failing.  Good enough.

Thursday, April 5, 2012

Many Tanks


It's been another crazy week.  The good news is...
the Teacher Appreciation Dinner that I was in charge of is over.  

Hip, hip, HOORAY!

Not only over, but over in {nice} way (except for the 7 loads of laundry, 6 loads of dishes - not counting the 3 hours of hand-washing dishes, and getting the numerous borrowed items sitting by my front door back to their rightful owners).

Despite my bouts of brain-fog, regardless of my hormonal out-of-sorts-ness, and notwithstanding the total unavailability of my husband to perform his usual save,
it turned out amazingly good.

I can't, however, take much of the credit.  I had a caring sister who talked me into a plan, many friends that rallied to assist, and not-a-few tender mercies along the way.

Here a few photos memorializing the preparations and event:


110+ caramel apple favors:  dipped, drizzled, and sprinkled on Friday (a million thanks, Mist, Lex, Haven and Mace); bagged, tied, and labeled on Saturday (more thanks, Bill and Shi).

Many, many thanks go out to Marci, Julee, and Julie for food prep, Misty for Costco runs, and Kathi, Alexa, Marci, Colleen, Misty, and Jeanne for set-up.
(The amazing thing is that all of these ladies are just as busy as I am, if not more.)




A big thank you to my friend Jeanne, who made 16 dozen homemade rolls, and homemade strawberry jam to go with.  They were a huge hit at our table.  She had the brilliant idea to put the rolls on the tables in bags to keep them fresh and soft.  Why haven't I ever thought of that?  

(Thanks, Alexa, for snapping some pics.)

I needed to attend the dinner, since Lexee was a participant, so I had to rely completely on those amazing ladies that were willing to work their hineys off in the kitchen all evening.  Jeanne, Julie, Alexa, Natalie, Tiffany, Kathi, and Misty... I honestly can't thank you enough.


Lex invited her sprint coach, Mr. Doyle.

Here's a blurb from her tribute:

"Something I've always enjoyed is your little pep talk before a race:
'Turn left.'
'Don't trip.'
'Don't throw up.'
'Don't drop the baton.'
'Run fast...'"

Mr. Doyle's response,
"Hey, you're giving away all of my secrets!"


The dinner was lovely, the program was lovely (thanks for arranging the special musical numbers, Mist!), the evening was lovely.  The principal, superintendent, two school board members, 15+ teachers/coaches/tutors, and 21 LDS graduating seniors were in attendance.  
I will call it a success.

And I am dang glad it's over.


Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Spring Not-So-Much-of-a-Break

I'm limiting my post time today, since I really have a hundred other things I could should be doing.

Just thought I would update on the fabulous Spring Break we are all having around here.

Lex has had track practice and work.  Yesterday we scheduled time to shop for Prom dresses, and she found one that she liked.  It would have been convenient had she selected the dress I liked, since it would have required little-to-no alterations (one less thing to do, you know?).  I thought it was absolutely stunning on her - bright pink satin mermaid-style with a crystal brooch.  {Beautiful}.  She said she couldn't "move" in it.  She didn't like the color.  She didn't like how shiny it was.  I stopped pressing, realizing that it IS her Prom.  Instead, she selected a lovely light pink and silver lace dress.  It is darling on her, however, it is in need of alterations.  I now need to squeeze in time to shop for matching fabric (I'm a little worried about that), and to find a tailor.  It can be done, right?

Shilo has been taking a class this week to certify as a lifeguard.  Isn't it funny how you never really think about the time and commitment required for certain things?  I have always thought lifeguarding was the easy summer job.  Kind of like I used to think marching band and cheerleading were cake (uh, no).  

Shilo has been informing us daily that it is hard.  Very, very hard.  And, said she, just because you are a fairly fast swimmer, it doesn't make picking up a brick on the bottom of the 12 ft. end of the pool and swimming with it over your head (and out of the water so the brick can "breathe") down to the other end of the pool easier.  It doesn't make putting someone much bigger than yourself on a backboard in the deep end of the pool easier.  It doesn't even make escaping from someone hanging on you and pulling you under water easier.  And believe me, I have heard about it every day this week.  
How it's been the longest day of her life.  
How she doesn't get a Spring Break (hello, I know where you're coming from).  
But she's hanging in there.  I know she'll be glad she did it when it's all said and done.

Mauri has two weeks off from school, which is good, since this week is not-so-much-of-a-Spring Break.  I've told her to be patient.  Next Wednesday we can start planning something fun to do.


We've also been dog sitting this week for some friends that are off having a great time over the break.  It's been somewhat challenging, now that we have two pups of our own to manage.  The pups eat Leo's food.  Leo slobbers all over the pups.  We are I am taking dogs out to poo and walk nearly all day long.  Leo is a barker, and we are afraid the pups will pick up on the nasty habit.  

At this very moment, Leo is in the spot he prefers - under the desk.
And I've discovered that he has gas... because "it wasn't me." {Stinky}
I have determined that our days of dog sitting are done.  It was much easier before Jack and Ava came along.


I've been spending most of my time this week making these for the centerpieces for the Teacher Appreciation Dinner on Tuesday:


They are turning out great (thanks to Pinterest), but I have learned a LOT along the way.  The biggest lesson I learned is to BE SELECTIVE with what books you use, especially when you plan to display them in a church building at a Stake function.  My friend had given me a huge stack of books to use (free - which totally works for the budget), and I just grabbed some and started cutting.  The cutting is slow and tedious work, and by the time I had enough apples cut for the centerpieces, I had stiff, sore fingers (and arms and neck), and blisters.  In the process of painting and gluing the apples, I made a discovery.  A bad word.  I ripped the page out, no worries.  Then I saw another.  I wrestled with what to do.  What if, during the coarse of dinner, one (or more) of those students, parents, or teachers are staring at a page in a book-apple that is totally and completely inappropriate?  (In briefly flipping through the pages I found sex, drugs, and murder, oh my.)

So, today I tossed the unacceptable book-apples (4 out of 8), and made more, using elementary level books to be safe (like Winnie the Pooh).  I hope the rest are okay.  {Sigh}

I have gone over my time limit, and the dogs are beckoning.

Thursday, March 22, 2012

Beach Hop


As I mentioned in my previous post, our ward was split last Sunday.  In two.  Right down the middle (kind of).  It didn't come as a surprise, since our ward has been so big that the seats are full to the back of the cultural hall every Sunday.  We knew it was inevitable, but that doesn't make it easy.  The biggest news for our family was that Billy-my-hero was called to be the bishop (which I internally pronounce "beach hop" thanks to a foreign exchange student I knew in my ward as a youth) of the new ward.  I should have seen it coming, with all the ruckus going on around here.  I chalk it up to Satan and his minions.  Trying to break us down.

Take yesterday, for example.

I subbed at the elementary school for what was supposed to be an hour, but turned into two.  As I glanced at my phone on the way home, I saw I had missed not-a-few communications in various forms.

Mar had broken her glasses at school.

I had forgotten to drop off the locker tags to the mom who was going to hang them.  I had stayed up until midnight the evening before making them so that they would be ready for her in the morning.  Ooops.  Epic flail.

Lex needed some instruction on a write-up she had promised to work on in exchange for my excusing her from a class at school, making what I had hoped would be a productive class-skipping, somewhat un.

And I had a very long voice message AND a very long text (broken into about four parts) about a musical number for the Teacher Appreciation dinner I'm in charge of in a couple of weeks (stressful all on it's own).

I took care of what I could take care of, then turned my focus on the other pressing matters of the day:
laundry and dishes.

That afternoon, I felt my unfortunate facial dermatitis (the doctor's generic term for I-don't-have-a-clue-what-it-is) flare up (I'm sure it's stress-induced), so I found my prescription and popped a pill around 5 pm, feeling frustrated that I have to deal with this little affliction at least twice a year.  Around 6, as I was quickly sending an email to co-locker-tag parents, the palms of my hands started itching like none other.  Then my tongue started to feel puffy and fat.  Suddenly (and I do mean suddenly), I broke out into massive amounts of hives all over my body.  My nose and lips started to swell.  I had never had a reaction like it before in my life.  Bill, only home for minutes between work and church, wasn't quite sure how to help, but grabbed the phone to call the doctor.  Then, for whatever reason, he thought maybe if he called 911, they could tell him IF it was an emergency or not.  When he mentioned it to me, I told him NOT to call, but it was too late.  He had dialed.  Within minutes we had a policeman at our door.  Then another.

They called the Fire and Rescue in.  With sirens.  Before I knew it, I was surrounded by half a dozen strange men, smelling like they had just finished (or were they in the middle of?) a strongly seasoned dinner, standing around watching me scratch.  


(Thanks for the pics, Rebecca)

Long story short, they encouraged me to go to the ER, and even offered to take me in the ambulance (seriously).  I thought it was all a ginormous over-reaction.  I declined, and told them that Bill and I would drive over to the hospital on our own.  By the time we were close, the itching had lessened (thanks to a hefty dose of Benadryl, I'm sure), and we decided to turn around and head home.  Drama over.

Or so I thought.

Bill headed off to the church for his meeting and I started to make dinner.  I put a pan on the stove, added a pat of butter, turned the burner on... then went into the office to send an email (what was I thinking?).  I'm pretty sure I had forgotten about the butter the instant I turned my back on the stove.
Next thing I know, my kitchen looks and smells like this:



Only Mar and I were home, so she grabbed the birds and the dogs and headed into the backyard.  I opened every door and window in the house, and turned on every fan.

"The good thing is:"
(thanks to a great talk at New Beginnings on Tuesday)

my house did NOT burn down
I did NOT have to call the Fire and Rescue dudes back
the birds did not die (thank you, Billats, for hosting them last night)
the dogs did not die
no one was seriously injured
my rash has gone away
 and I didn't waste a boatload of moo-lah on an ambulance ride OR an ER visit.

The older girls, who had been at a school event all evening, couldn't believe they had missed so much excitement.  I'm just praying for a better day today.  So far, so good.