Wednesday, June 8, 2011

The Growing Season

I can grow hostas.
 They were really just an afterthought, a few years back when we were landscaping our front yard.  I didn't even know what they were, just that they liked shade.  And, having a north-facing house, I've got boatloads of shade in the front.  We plopped them next to the front door as a filler.  They have been very happy there, away from the borders that tempt wandering deer.  They are so big now, they almost look a little ridiculous.

The things planted intentionally have not done so well.  All I want is two large, flowering bushes that grow past the base of the front window.  I don't think I'm asking for much.  Two bushes, that is all.  

This lonely bush is the result of two attempts.  It's supposed to grow big... up to 6 feet tall and 6 feet wide.  This is it's third summer season.  I don't think it's reaching it's full potential.  This is, however, the first time it has actually bloomed.
 This is one tough little bush, not giving in to the winter-kill of the off-season.  Growing in what is most likely a foot of rock (shout-out to Bill, the rock king).  Never feeling the warmth of direct sunlight.  
I've got to respect the bush.
But I can't help wishing it's twin hadn't died out the first winter, and that it would have a sudden growth spurt.

The peonies look good again this year.  Barring hail, a deep freeze, or tornados, they should be blooming pretty soon.  I can't wait.  They are my favorite.

The house I grew up in had lovely peonies, and a beautiful lilac bush.  Just the other day, I walked up to my neighbor's door... her lilac bush is blooming, and smelled so amazing, I determined that I must have one myself.  So my gardening goals this year are:

plant more peonies
plant a lilac bush (or two, just in case one doesn't make it)
keep the weeds down in the unplanted garden area.

(Although Bill is determined to till the garden, then "throw in some seeds."  Maybe the after-thoughtful, casual, unintentional approach will work??? It can't be worse than last year.)

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

The Beginning of Summer Madness

As one door shuts, another opens.  As one thing comes to an end, something else begins.  So philosophical of me, I know.

Will I ever get to a time where I have nothing to do but read?  Or give myself a pedicure (I could really use one)?  Or shave my legs (summer's here... no more letting it slide for a month at a time)?  
Apparently NOT.

But that's okay.  I have an appreciation for being home.  Having that extra 4 hours in my day.  EVERY day.  So regardless of how busy things seem to always be, I am grateful for the extra time.

So... my summer started out with a bang swim meet.  Saturday.
I know, I know.  It's not like it's an atypical thing around here.  But it was Mar's first meet since last summer, so a big deal for her.  Since she doesn't swim year round like her big sis, I was a little worried that she would feel less capable, less approved of, or less cheered for.  I was the sole supporter, since Bill was attending the Ma and Pa training for the Pioneer Trek that morning.  It was chilly at 7am, and Mar grumped while shivering after warm-ups.  Then she swam her first event.  A relay.
 Her team placed first, which was a great start to the season.  After the race, Mar came back to me with a huge smile, and an "I love swim meets!" sentiment.
 The day warmed up nice and toasty (although it's been super hazy around here... they say from the Arizona fires.  It makes the sun look red, which is really cool, but it's probably not so great to breathe).
 Shilo swam great, too.  I think she made All Star times in all of her individual events.  We're not completely sure, since the team has a new timing system, and there were a few glitches here and there.  She won't be able to attend practice this entire week, and will only have two days of practice the following week prior to her next meet, which might give some of her closest in-team rivals a chance to catch up to her. 

We have a few friends who have children doing swim team for the first time.  It reminded me again of Shilo's first season.  She couldn't swim across the pool (and it was a pool with a 12 ft. deep end!!!).  I was prepared to go in, in case a rescue was needed.  At practices, she would swim two strokes, then cling on to the side of the pool for a minute or two.  Then repeat the process.  All the way across the pool.  From one side to the other.  Over and over.  It was hard, at the time, for me to watch, so I sympathized with those new swim team parents.
Mauri swam her first 100 IM and didn't get DQed (IM=Individual Medley.  The swimmer has to swim each stroke: butterfly, backstroke, breaststroke, and freestyle, in the right order, and make the "turn" for each correctly.  A lot to remember, especially when you have never swum it competitively before.)  She even won her heat by half a pool-length.  She got a Heat Winner ribbon, which made her day, although I think (glitched system) she placed 5th overall.

So the summer has begun.  Sunday afternoon, Lexee and Shilo headed out with our Bishop, his 4 year old son, and 5 other girls (it was a packed vehicle) to Provo for EFY.  It's the first year ever that we haven't done the EFY drop-off routine.  I kinda missed it.  The girls stayed with Britta, who graciously hosted them and their friends for a night, before check-in on Monday.  Shilo called me yesterday to tell me that she and Cheyenne are in the same group as three other girls from our ward.  We have since concluded that the EFY powers-that-be must intentionally place people from the same area together, since the chances would be pretty slim for them to all be together if it was done randomly.

When I texted Lex and Shi last night, they both said it had been a great day.  It's made things a bit slower around here, as far as parental duties go, so I spent the day finishing the paper purge, doing laundry, and finalizing my cabinet choice for the basement.  The progress on the basement has stagnated for a few days... I'm hoping it picks up soon.  Like today.

Sunday, June 5, 2011

The End of an Era


School's out.  At last.  The kindies are moving on, and so am I.  
(I did, however, decide to be a sub for the SPED EAs next year.  The perfect fit?  We'll see.)


There was pomp.  There was circumstance.  There was a brief march through a packed room full of parents, grandparents, and siblings, followed by precious renditions of cheery songs like, Time to Say Good-bye to Kindergarten, and See Ya Later, Alligator.


Then they filed out of that overcrowded, sweltering gym, cameras flashing, as if they were paparazzi magnets.  And where was I?  Trying to be unobtrusive and invisible.  Which was nearly impossible, since I needed to stay close to the kindies in my care.  Yep.  I walked the walk with them.  I'm probably in a darn lot of pictures, and my bet is that my eyes are closed in most of them.

Then parents swarmed into the kindergarten room for a final good-bye video (which almost made me cry.  It's only odd because I shed nary a tear when my own children advanced from that tender stage.  I think it was the realization that my first baby will be 22 this week... and the thought of "oh my, time flies," that caused my emotional reaction.)

Then we all went home.

Ahhhhh.... summer.

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Memorial Day

After The Great Purge, we spent the evening of Memorial Day with our friends, the Yoshikawas. 



We go way back.
(This is Zoe and Vance at our wedding reception.  The night of their first date.)

They moved to Colorado about a year ago, but recently moved (again!) even closer to us.

 Bill and Vance BBQ'd in the wind, leaving Bill with a fuzzy 'do, thanks to the haircut he'd received from moi earlier in the day.

We filled our bellies with awesome food, then the guys took Mar and the boys swimming (and turned into ice cubes in the cold wind while the kids stayed warm in the pool).

 The girls hung out in front of the TV.  I think we were all just exhausted.  The Yoshikawas had taken their oldest son to the MTC, had a daughter graduate high school, and had another daughter get engaged in the week or two prior.
And we've had the purge going on.
Like I said, exhausting.

And now it's June.  Hallelujah.

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Purging and Waffling

Bill and I spent our Memorial Day morning doing this



Yes, I have let him in on the paper purge.

It feels so good, even though my shoulders ache and I have a hitch in my backside thanks to hours on the floor shuffling through paper.  And product manuals.  I know, it's ridiculous.  I had thick informational booklets for items we no longer own.  Like bikes.  And the past TWO dishwashers.  And whoever looks at the manuals that come with i-pods, calculators, game boys, and cell phones??  It's not like you can't find that information online these days.  I had papers from health insurance agencies dating back to 1989, and phone, water, gas, and electric bills from years gone by.  

It felt like overcoming an addiction to paper hoarding.

We let the girls sleep in so we could have all the fun.
(Not really fun, but it feels so darn good.)

Over the past week or so, I have filled at least four of those big black trash bags with paper shreds.  
It's been awesome.

I have come to realize that most of that stuff I have neatly filed for years, serves little to no purpose. I will carefully consider the value and necessity of any item that gets filed from now on.

And today, I have determined that I will talk to the SPED teacher at GRE and let her know I will not be returning to the school next year.  I have waffled on my decision made back here.

Should I stay or should I go, now?

I should GO.

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Absolutely

The other day I was thinking about the cute things kids say, and regretting that I didn't keep better records of some of the really great phrases from my own offspring.  I was busy.  I thought I would remember.  Then, before I know it, it's stuck in the Somebody Said It, But I Can't Remember Who folder, or possibly even put in the Never To Be Recalled Until Judgement Day file.

But I DO remember something Lexee used to say,
so I figured I would blog it, in hopes to keep it accurate, alive, and well.


Around 4 years old, the age of basic language mastery, and the beginning of larger word awareness, Lex somehow confused the word "ACCIDENTALLY" with the word "ABSOLUTELY."

I didn't want to correct her.  She was too darn cute.

Incidents like the following scenario would happen daily:

Someone would come in crying.  "Lexee hurt me!"

"Lexee, what happened??" I would ask, as sternly as possible.

"I absolutely threw a rock at her."

"I absolutely tripped him."
"I absolutely broke the glass."
"I absolutely colored on the wall."
"I ABSOLUTELY did it."

What she thought was reasonable justification was really a confession.

Cutest thing ever.

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Basement Progress

What a mere 3 days of progress looks like:

 This is where the bathroom will be... thus the jack-hammered cement, in preparation to move the far-recesses-of-the-basement rough-in plumbing done by the the git-'er-done builders.


 This is the divine place where the washer and dryer will go.  Yes, I am ecstatic to have a second laundry facility.  I've warned the girls that the days of mom doing all the laundry -- the washing (including stretching those darn jeans), the drying, the folding, the placing it neatly in their bedrooms, even hanging some of it up -- will soon come to an abrupt end.  I can't wait.

 Tub drain on the right of the fork, toilet drain on the left.  In case you were wondering.
(I know you were.)

 Our first assignment:  purchase a tub.  And the shower kit.
After not-a-few trips to various home improvement stores, the desired outcome was achieved.

 Our framer's name is Aaron.  He has been patient (with my indecision) and kind (with our on-the-spot requests).  Can I just say, I love the smell of freshly cut lumber?  The sawdust all over the house I could do without, but hey, my house smells positively new lately.  Nice.

Bill's BIG IDEA:  utilize the space between the cement and the framed wall (because I wanted a clean wall-line, vs. a framed out box that the plumbing would necessitate) for shelving.  Bookcases... a place to put DVDs... possibly even for "decorative purposes" (Bill's words, not mine).  Ingenious.
I've always known Bill was a smart guy.  

Now you know it, too :-)