Monday, April 11, 2011

Too Many Cookies

This morning I am thinking that I have too many cookies on my plate (there IS such a thing), so blogging is going to have to take a back seat for a while.  I know, I've said that before, then still managed to post fairly regularly.  I'm working on prioritizing, but that doesn't mean I'm good at it.  Honestly, I mainly blog for my family.  My parents, my in-laws, my children, and yes, even my husband.  He thinks my blogging ability is "impressive," which only makes me want to impress him more.  And then, I'll admit, I blog a tiny bit for me.  Selfish, I know.  A mix between scrapbooking and journaling, it gives me the sense of making sure we won't forget the meat of life.  The day-to-day.

But before I resign myself to limited blogging time, I will share the weekend.  Because it happened.  The pictures are few and far between, so I've made a couple substitutions.


Shilo spent Friday evening and most of Saturday here.  The whole week prior she had worried and fretted over her first long-course meet of the season.  A 50 meter pool.  

I spent Friday evening and most of Saturday sitting on hard metal bleachers, observing.  Towards the end of the meet Saturday, Shilo and I noticed that a large group of chairs that had been neatly placed in a most convenient location in order to "save" a spot, had not been used ONCE.  Most likely someone had arrived early to the meet to save the best seating, but apparently had come a day early, and were really saving the seats for the Sunday meet. That's all we could conclude, since the entire 4 1/2 hours we were in attendance on Saturday, nary a soul even attempted to sit in them.  Frustrated that the meet was almost over, and those prime seating spots had gone to waste, Shilo and I pulled out our camp chairs, nicely pushed those 6 unused chairs back, and assumed a more comfortable front-row seating arrangement for the final 30 minutes.


Shilo swam the 200IM, 200 back, and 100 free.  She placed first in her heat in each event, and improved her times by many seconds in every race.  See?  It wasn't so bad.

Lexee had a track meet on Saturday, so Bill and I divided and conquered.  He did NOT take a camera, since he was rushing out of the house so as not to miss Lex's first event.  That relay.  The 800 Medley.  The first event of nearly EVERY meet, and the one Lex had the fall on the last time she ran it.

He called to tell me the relay had been a success.  Smoother hand-off.  No fall.  They placed 4th out of 12 teams.  AWESOME.

Taylor came into town on Saturday.  He drove the long, 10-hour drive from Rexburg to Parker with two fellow-Coloradan girls in tow.  I just want to know why that trip goes by so fast when I'm not in the car?  He was here around 7 pm (we NEVER get home that early).  It's great to have him home for a week or so before he heads back to Idaho.  He keeps telling us how nice home is, after living in tight quarters with 5 other guys who have an aversion to washing dishes.

After church on Sunday, at Mauri's insistence, she and Bill flew a kite.  I was busily printing locker tags for the track team (more on that in a minute), and Bill neglected to pack a camera, so I will share other kite-flying pictures, circa 2005.



As for my cookies, they are many.

Work.  Bill and I have decided that I will NOT continue in the SPED field after this school year.  Six more weeks, then one fewer cookie.  I could use a less-crowded plate.

Church.  I currently serve as the Ward Music Chairperson (a challenge) and a Relief Society teacher (enjoy).  I have two additional assignments:  Ward cook for Girls Camp (love that), and yesterday Bill and I were asked to be a Ma and Pa for our Stake Pioneer Trek (which I have ALWAYS wanted to do).  I have a desire to magnify every calling and assignment, thus have a desperate need to prioritize.  Bye-bye blogging.  (Okay, maybe just a purposeful reduction will work.)

Volunteer.  At the parent Track & Field meeting a sign-up sheet was passed around.  Bill and I wanted to be involved, but to a minimal degree, so we jotted down that we would be willing to help, but kept it vague.  Next thing you know, Bill is one of only a few parents trained to work concessions (luckily his expertise has not been required frequently), and one of the coaches contacted me to be her fundraising liaison AND the locker tag coordinator.  I know.  I'm crazy for accepting.  You would think I would learn.  I've only had 3 parents volunteer to help with locker tags, and there are 75 athletes on the team.  It's quite a job.

Friend. I would really love to be a caring and supportive daughter, sister, friend, and neighbor.  With better time management, I could make some of those phone calls.  I've told my children that communicating through written forms (like texting and blogging) is awesome, but should never take the place of actual verbal conversations.  The art of talking to actual people might get lost.  I'm taking my own advice.

Mom.  Still trying to manage the home.  You know, nurture children, organize a menu, pay the bills, do the laundry in a timely manner.  It's the biggest cookie of all.  And the most important.

So I plan to post less.  At least until some of those cookies are consumed in an efficient and worthy manner.

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Insult to Injury and Other Randomness

Remember my injured toe?  The one a frozen beef roast fell on from a good 4 ft. high, smashing it and rendering it swollen and purple?  The one I limped around with for days, carefully protecting it from people and objects that might carelessly bump or touch it in any way?  It had finally started feeling normal.  I could walk without a limp.  I wasn't defensively yelling, "Stay back!" to anyone who dared to approach the protective safe zone surrounding me.  The swelling had dissipated, and the discoloration had all but disappeared.

Then the unimaginable happened.  As I was collecting some canned food items to donate to a local charity (for charity, for goodness sakes), unbeknownst to me the wimpy Walmart bag holding the cans discreetly ripped, and out dropped a can of beans.  And where did that can land?  On the tip of the very toe that had been injured the week earlier.  I really, really, really wanted to say a cuss word. 

Now I am back to a purple, swollen toe, that has throbbed non-stop for the past day and a half.  And to add to my discomfort, one of the {heavier} kindies inadvertently stepped squarely on my foot today.   In my mind I can visualize an x-ray of pulverized bone, and amazed doctors asking me how I have tolerated such a horrific injury for so long.  I have also imagined the entire toe turning black, followed by the need for amputation, and my family finally showing adequate sympathy for my pain.  I have wallowed in suffering and self-pity.  But enough about me.

Mauri bid farewell to her horse, Charlie Brown, and mechanical Biscuit dog, Sara.
 (That purple bag is holding the can of beans that has caused so much suffering.  Stupid can.  Stupid wimpy Walmart bag.  Stupid me for trusting a Walmart bag to contain several items of considerable weight dangling over an unprotected foot.)

I know, it's pathetic that my last and youngest child has had a stuffed horse and a mechanical dog to shower her love and affection on.  Believe me, the dog talk still persists.  In my defense, however, in an effort to compensate, I have allowed the birds more access to the house.



Aren't birds the most cuddly, interactive pet ever?

And we found this awesome picture of Lex from the last track meet on an online site for Colorado high school track and field stats.

She doesn't care for it, and even thinks she looks fat.  FAT!  Are you kidding me?  I am thrilled to have an action shot far superior to any I could capture from the bleachers with my point-n-shoot.

Enjoy the rest of your hump day.  I love a Wednesday afternoon.

Monday, April 4, 2011

End Results

The week{end} flew by.

I spent Saturday at Lexee's track meet.  All day.  It was in Colorado Springs, so I left around 9:45 (she left at 6:30), and we returned together around 5.  Did I mention that it was 80+ degrees on Saturday?  As I was heading out for my hour-long drive to the meet, I chided myself on not bringing a coat, gloves, and a blanket.  Hadn't I learned my lesson last year, freezing through meet after meet, one at the very track I was heading to?  I knew the forecast was for warmth, but I still thought, perhaps, I should have been better prepared.  

Once at the meet, I started to roast.  The gradual, slow kind of roasting, that you realize only when you start smelling the perfume human hotness, and sweat starts to drip.  I removed my hoodie.  Then the burn began.  On my right side, the side facing the glaring sun.  Unprepared and without sunscreen, I eventually wrapped my hoodie around my arm, hoping to protect it from that blistering, peeling kind of burn.  I was too late.



Lexee performed well, and we deemed the meet a success.

Bill stayed home to watch/record General Conference, and supervise the final day of house painting.  

(Have I mentioned that I couldn't sleep Friday night due to 1) being awakened at 2 am by Mauri, needing a lengthy re-tuck into bed,  2) blustering winds causing the large sheets of plastic taped around the windows to loudly flap incessantly, and 3) anxiety over my paint-color selection?)

The house looks nice.  I am getting used to it.  It's not quite what I envisioned, but it's growing on me.  I'm coming to accept the fact that my house is green (a very dark green), and it will be for the next 10 years, barring relocation.  And, in the {end}, house color doesn't really matter.  It's certainly not worth losing sleep over, for pity's sake.


On Sunday we held our traditional biannual Syddall General Conference luncheon.  We had a larger group than normal, but it all went smoothly, with plenty of food left over.  




Outside it looked like this:
Good thing, I needed a long-sleeved shirt to cover my farmer-burned arm.  (I'm still feeling the burn.)

Once those awesome conference sessions were over, we measured the kids.  Tradition.


The {end} results:  Mauri has grown an inch in the past year, Lex has not grown at all, and Shilo is now as tall as her mamacita.  We marveled at the kids' overall growth since our first measurement, back in April 03.

Spring break has come to an {end}, so sad to see it go.  As for my wish list, I'm thinking about a 75% success rate.  Could be worse.

Friday, April 1, 2011

No Foolin' Around Here

I'm a little stressed about my paint color.


Wow.  It is really dark.  {Deep breath}

Mauri loves it.  I am anxiously awaiting the final result.  Trim makes a big difference, you know.  At least that's what I'm telling my hyper-ventilating self right now.

April Fools, family.  Our house looks like horse poo (which is only slightly better than looking like dog poo).
The color is called Grass Clipping, after all.

It's going to look great...
It's going to look great...
It's going to look great...

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Mii, Mauri, and an American Dream


Yesterday was a "Mom and Me" day.  Mauri had it all planned out.  What we would do.  Where we would go.  Together.  She had been talking about it for weeks.

I was all for it.  I could totally use a day to justify shopping, eating, and lounging around, all for the sake of close family bonds and quality relationship development time.  Not to mention, I could use a break from my daily mom busy-ness.

We started the day with a hour or two of Wii Play.  I rather enjoyed myself.

Then we headed out to shop:  for a purse (Mar needed a bigger one for all her stuff) and an Easter dress.

We perused PetsMart, checking out critters of all sorts before making a treat purchase for Buddy and Tweety.

We ate at Mt. Fuji.  Japanese soda.  California maki.  Cream cheese wontons.  Teriyaki and tempura.  (We had enough leftovers for an after-school snack for Shi, late-afternoon snack for mii, and dinner for Bill.  Nice.)

After a satisfying lunch, we moseyed over to Target to leisurely browse, leaving with a new pony for Mar's AmGirl doll, and Tangled.

We nabbed Shi after school, watched our new show, then I accompanied Mar to her piano lesson.

To top the day off, after sending the older girls on their way to various activities, Mar and I watched Hairspray, cuddled up together on the sofa in the dark.  Just like the old days.  The pre-school days that Mar longs to get back, if only for a moment.

The day was a dream.  (If you minus the rigamarole that went on in the minutia in between.)  I could use more of those.

Monday, March 28, 2011

Progress Report

A quick update.

Remember the coloring contest?
Success.  Mar won 3rd place in her age category, and $50.


My shelves?  I'm still thinking:


Since I received ZERO suggestions, I suppose I am on my own, which means it may be a long, drawn-out process of trying something, living with it for a while, then tweaking.  Endless tweaking.  Until I'm just plain tired of thinking about it anymore, after which I will succumb to the realization that what is, is, and it is fine.  Then I will cling to any suggestion that my home should be what I like, and not what HGTV, design bloggers, and model-home enthusiasts determine is beautiful and esthetically pleasing.  If you ARE said person(s), I would assume that all judgement would be withheld, since you declined the initial invitation to offer input.  (Now's your last chance.)

Bill says he doesn't care for the pictures of strange people.  He's such a card.  
(Not to be confused with a cad.  Which he isn't.  In fact, Bill has been most helpful at assisting with my Spring Break wish list, which, we have determined, can be deemed somewhat "romantic" on his part.  He has requested that my statement concerning his level of romanticism in the ABOUT ME sidebar of my blog be changed.) 

And after a week of lovely Spring weather, I woke up today to this:


which I usually wouldn't mind, since I like a good mix.  
But since my house is scheduled to be painted this week, and since I have spent a lot of time and energy getting the whole thing expedited through a lengthy HOA approval process, I can only hope that the snow will dissipate and
the sun will come out tomorrow.

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Lacking Focus and Inspiration


The past few days I have tirelessly worked on my Spring Break wish list.  But I've run across a few problems.  

I've had a hard time staying focused.  I have flitted from one thing to another -- here, there and everywhere.  I have obsessively and tediously scanned pictures in an effort to digitize them, while ironing in between each slow, lengthy scan.  I have put away the dishes in the middle of dusting the family room, pausing briefly to catch a glimpse of DVR-delayed episodes of Chopped and The Amazing Race (my weakness -- that darn TV).   I have organized the DVDs while clipping coupons and making calls to expedite the home-painting process.  

(I've come the conclusion that we do NOT need any more Barbie DVDs.  We have plenty.)

I have gone to bed late each evening, feeling frustrated that I did not get more done.  And last night I went to bed with a purple toe, thanks to a frozen beef roast slipping from the second-to-top shelf of the freezer onto my bare foot as I was trying to retrieve something (anything) for dinner.  I was going to take a picture in a quest for sympathy, but my feet are TUTP.  Too Ugly To Post.  Any thought of a pedicure is now on hold, until the purple toe can handle movement and massage.

Yesterday I started in on this little project:

I love this wall in my family room.  My father-in-law made the shelves for us years ago, and it has been admired by friends, family, and neighbors for a long, long time.   But it was in some serious need of dusting -- a fairly tedious process which requires furniture moving and a ladder.  I was up for the challenge (and an episode of Chopped).  As I took everything down, I started feeling like a change would be nice.  It's pretty much been the same for 8 years or so, give or take a picture add/change.

But thus far I have been uninspired.

So this is what it looks like right now.  I know, pathetic.  At the very least, I will change out the family pictures, but I would really like an updated, new look.  With minimal expense, of course.  I'm thinking maybe all black frames... or something symmetrical (that would make Bill happy)... possibly losing the Willow Tree figurines (which I plan to keep, just not in the family room)...

ANY IDEAS?

Today I hope to be focused.  Complete one task before moving on.
Someone shared this with me years ago...

Work while you work.
Play while you play.
One thing at a time, that is the way.

In all that you do,
Do with your might.
A job done in halves, is never done right.

I have recruited the help of two lovely girls to assist me with the housework.  I'd better go wake them up.